So, You're New to This?

Welcome! Realizing you like girls is exciting, but dating can feel overwhelming at first. Here is a starter pack for your journey.

1. There is no "Right Way" to be Lesbian

Forget stereotypes. You don't have to change your clothes, your hair, or your hobbies. Being a lesbian just means you are a woman who loves women. That's it.

2. Flirting 101

The eternal struggle: "Is she being nice or is she flirting?" Eye contact is huge. If she holds your gaze a little longer than usual, smiles a lot, and finds reasons to touch your arm... she might be interested. The best way to know? Ask!

3. Rejection is Okay

Not everyone will like you back, and that's okay. It doesn't mean anything is wrong with you. It just means you aren't a match. Dust yourself off and keep going.